Some people have this misdirection on what is condition love and what is unconditional love. Some people fall in love with someone because that person has all the values, they were looking for. Those people have this check list about the "idea" perfect person they want in their life. I feel you should love your partner or special someone for who they are and not for what they stand for. Love is a feeling and people forget that because they try to force someone to love them. when really that person don't feel the same way as you do.
Unconditional love is when you really love someone because you see yourself in them. You love them for who they really are. They want to be with you not for who you stand for but they want you for you. I feel when you love someone unconditionally because you cant breathe with that person is around you and you almost die when that person didn't pick up your phone call. You can't see your world the same without that person. Like I feel my mother with all my heart and I know I can't survive on this earth without. My mother loves me when I have my high moments and when I hit rock bottom. I feel when you love someone unconditionally you have this type of passion and dedication to that person no matter what happens. I feel when you love someone or you are in love with someone, it should unconscious. You should love that person just cause.
Condition love is when you love someone because you have this program in your mind that this special someone should look and be a actual way. Except for looking at the small things you look at this big picture because your observing to found things that you like in someone and not for what they really are. I like some guys would look for nice body and nice looks because that what they were program to do. Their some guys who look for the small things like the characteristics that your mom might have or grandma. Everyman was told by their dad to found someone like your mother because she the most special woman in your life. I feel you shouldn't love someone for what they have but for they are. To love someone for their wealth or fame is condition love but to love someone because that someone makes your heart beat fast and slow at the same time now that my friends is unconditional love.
Sunday, October 31, 2010
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Blog 4: Happiness at Work.
I never work a day in my life so I wouldnt know how it is to be happy while your working but I think I would want to be happy doing something that I love doing then do something that pays the most. I hope when I become a physical therapist, I just want to bring happiness to people after they just overcome a horrible injury or sugrey because I recieve happiness when I can do something thst would benefit or make someone else and impact their lives. So that my outlook on what happiness should be while I'm working.
Monday, October 18, 2010
The Guardian
I found out that I would be a good baseball coach because I like taking care of people, teaching young adults or kids the value on playing baseball, improving kids or young adults life and impacting them in a good way.
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
blog 3: "a physical being"
As a physical person, I need to of things that would challenge me and help me to be a happier student. I'm going to discuss my history on being a physical personal the challenges & advantage on being physical person. I will also discuses learning styles of being physical, how does being physical affective me and my future planning as a physical person.
People don't understand how hard it really is to be a physical person in a neutral place like school. Some of my history as a physical person started at a very young age. I really feel I came out my mother woe running & playing. Ever since I was little I remember just bouncing off the wall everywhere and anywhere. I would be running inside church and my mom rights behind me try to get me to sit down & relax. It was pretty funny now that I realize it. So for being off the wall and being hyper all the time, there was only a matter of time into I was denote with ADD (which is attention defiance disorder). So ever since then I had to take medicine to get me to focus in school. People say you grow out of it but that's a lie because they never experience it. I don't feel that having ADD is a problem because I feel I can do anything a person without ADD can do but the problem is I can't stay still for few seconds. So I never let ADD slow me down when it came to school but help me in other areas besides school.
The challenges of being a physical person is when your contained in an environment like school, it is really hard to maintain being focus because your mind wants to go play and run a million miles a minute but your suppose to be in class learning how to add 2 plus 2. When I was in kindergarten, I had a lot of trouble sitting in my chair in class but when play time came I was superman. So my teacher decide one day to take off my shoes off when I don't sit still because when I go home at the end of school day and my mom sees I have cleaned the whole classroom with my socks, I'll get smacked like I owned my mom child support. So I would try to stay in my chair so I wouldn't get in trouble with my mom. It really hard to focus in class when everybody in class look at you to be the class clown because you’re so hyper & off the wall. I use to get on my report card distracted influence under comments & my mom would knock me into tomorrow. So it was really hard staying focus in school & to study outside of school because I am so physical.
I think being a physical person is best thing in the world. Some of the advantages of being a physical person are that you excel at sports like baseball, basketball and etc. You also excel at gym time. I was always gym athlete of the month but not student of the month. I think the best world to describe physical people is a jock because jocks are popular for being physical and not in the classroom so are both but it’s rare. I feel like playing sports is like my education because I learn better when I am active or my body is in motion. I could learn how to throw a curve ball than learn how to do long division.
Some of the styles I was for learning because I am a physical person like I shake my leg during class to get me to think or I'll like tap my pen on the desk to get me to work. I been trying to do push ups in between my breaks I take while I'm studying. So I'll study for a hour then do some push ups & relax then go back to studying or I'll study then go to the park and play basketball then come back and study some more. It’s really hard to focus & study for a physical person. In my senior year in high school, I'll do weight training really early in the morning then I'll be ready for school but the side effect I'll also fall asleep in school so that don't work. So it’s hard but you learn how to deal with it.
I think the best thing for a physical person to be happy in school is to do something that involves you moving or using your hands. I'm going to school to study and become a physical therapist so I can help physical people get back to be a physical again. I think this is the best thing for me to do as a career. I think being a physical person will help me in the future because being physical well help other people is physical. So I hope education and I being a physical person help me have a better future.
As a physical person I face challenges every single day, I walk into a classroom but being physical has it advantage. I have to use different learning styles to learn material in school and I hope being physical will help me in the future become a physical therapist.
People don't understand how hard it really is to be a physical person in a neutral place like school. Some of my history as a physical person started at a very young age. I really feel I came out my mother woe running & playing. Ever since I was little I remember just bouncing off the wall everywhere and anywhere. I would be running inside church and my mom rights behind me try to get me to sit down & relax. It was pretty funny now that I realize it. So for being off the wall and being hyper all the time, there was only a matter of time into I was denote with ADD (which is attention defiance disorder). So ever since then I had to take medicine to get me to focus in school. People say you grow out of it but that's a lie because they never experience it. I don't feel that having ADD is a problem because I feel I can do anything a person without ADD can do but the problem is I can't stay still for few seconds. So I never let ADD slow me down when it came to school but help me in other areas besides school.
The challenges of being a physical person is when your contained in an environment like school, it is really hard to maintain being focus because your mind wants to go play and run a million miles a minute but your suppose to be in class learning how to add 2 plus 2. When I was in kindergarten, I had a lot of trouble sitting in my chair in class but when play time came I was superman. So my teacher decide one day to take off my shoes off when I don't sit still because when I go home at the end of school day and my mom sees I have cleaned the whole classroom with my socks, I'll get smacked like I owned my mom child support. So I would try to stay in my chair so I wouldn't get in trouble with my mom. It really hard to focus in class when everybody in class look at you to be the class clown because you’re so hyper & off the wall. I use to get on my report card distracted influence under comments & my mom would knock me into tomorrow. So it was really hard staying focus in school & to study outside of school because I am so physical.
I think being a physical person is best thing in the world. Some of the advantages of being a physical person are that you excel at sports like baseball, basketball and etc. You also excel at gym time. I was always gym athlete of the month but not student of the month. I think the best world to describe physical people is a jock because jocks are popular for being physical and not in the classroom so are both but it’s rare. I feel like playing sports is like my education because I learn better when I am active or my body is in motion. I could learn how to throw a curve ball than learn how to do long division.
Some of the styles I was for learning because I am a physical person like I shake my leg during class to get me to think or I'll like tap my pen on the desk to get me to work. I been trying to do push ups in between my breaks I take while I'm studying. So I'll study for a hour then do some push ups & relax then go back to studying or I'll study then go to the park and play basketball then come back and study some more. It’s really hard to focus & study for a physical person. In my senior year in high school, I'll do weight training really early in the morning then I'll be ready for school but the side effect I'll also fall asleep in school so that don't work. So it’s hard but you learn how to deal with it.
I think the best thing for a physical person to be happy in school is to do something that involves you moving or using your hands. I'm going to school to study and become a physical therapist so I can help physical people get back to be a physical again. I think this is the best thing for me to do as a career. I think being a physical person will help me in the future because being physical well help other people is physical. So I hope education and I being a physical person help me have a better future.
As a physical person I face challenges every single day, I walk into a classroom but being physical has it advantage. I have to use different learning styles to learn material in school and I hope being physical will help me in the future become a physical therapist.
Monday, October 4, 2010
Blog 2: " Happiness In Education"
Mark Van Doren once quoted " our best chance for happiness is education." That is a great saying because without education sometimes you cant be happy in life but that's sometimes because some people don't get an education and still live happy lives. In reading " Happiness In Education" Tal Ben- Shahar discusses two models that illustrate how students are motivated. One is the drowning model and the other is lovemaking model.
The first model is the drowning model is the passion to relieve yourself of stress from school and once we are relieve of that pain from school, we believe we are much happier. Students aren't happy about school but they bite the bullet and do things that will help or hurt their education. Like if student finish a big project that student is going to throw a party. On the other hand, the lovemaking model is a way of thinking because they feel education makes feel happy now and the future. Students who feel by just by sitting in a classroom or doing math problems for hours is fun. Students who are like lovemaking model gives them a sense of love from everything they have accomplish.
I feel like I'm a drowning model because I don't feel happy about going to school or just sitting in class or looking at a hard math problem, oh my god shoot me right then and there but I realize that if I do my work it would benefit me in the long run. when I finish another kind of project or essay or test, I feel like the world has been lifted off my shoulders. it probably the best feeling in the world after I'm done with my school work. I feel that if I work hard now I can party later exclude for partying now and hard work later.
I'm the happiest in education is when I'm learning the material and when I can help someone else learn the material because I feel I learn better when I help people because the material repeats in my head so the material stays in my mind so I cant forget it. Like for example, I'm horrible at math but if I get the material and if I teach or show someone how to solve the problem it gets proceed in my head and forever it stays. So I learn the best if I teach someone or explain to someone else what I have learn. So if I'm learn and i know what I'm doing I'm the most happiest person in the world.
I feel sometimes student get lose in what makes them happy when it comes to happiest. Sometimes, students cant learn because they are always moving so maybe that student should be in dance or playing an instrument or playing a sport. I know I don't like doing school work but I realize that this is going to make my life better in the future.
The first model is the drowning model is the passion to relieve yourself of stress from school and once we are relieve of that pain from school, we believe we are much happier. Students aren't happy about school but they bite the bullet and do things that will help or hurt their education. Like if student finish a big project that student is going to throw a party. On the other hand, the lovemaking model is a way of thinking because they feel education makes feel happy now and the future. Students who feel by just by sitting in a classroom or doing math problems for hours is fun. Students who are like lovemaking model gives them a sense of love from everything they have accomplish.
I feel like I'm a drowning model because I don't feel happy about going to school or just sitting in class or looking at a hard math problem, oh my god shoot me right then and there but I realize that if I do my work it would benefit me in the long run. when I finish another kind of project or essay or test, I feel like the world has been lifted off my shoulders. it probably the best feeling in the world after I'm done with my school work. I feel that if I work hard now I can party later exclude for partying now and hard work later.
I'm the happiest in education is when I'm learning the material and when I can help someone else learn the material because I feel I learn better when I help people because the material repeats in my head so the material stays in my mind so I cant forget it. Like for example, I'm horrible at math but if I get the material and if I teach or show someone how to solve the problem it gets proceed in my head and forever it stays. So I learn the best if I teach someone or explain to someone else what I have learn. So if I'm learn and i know what I'm doing I'm the most happiest person in the world.
I feel sometimes student get lose in what makes them happy when it comes to happiest. Sometimes, students cant learn because they are always moving so maybe that student should be in dance or playing an instrument or playing a sport. I know I don't like doing school work but I realize that this is going to make my life better in the future.
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